LIFE…. Isn’t it a beautiful thing?

Hey hey hey everyone,

As I start writing this entry, I notice that I haven’t posted anything in over a week. That sounds weird huh? LOL

Maybe not. It’s cool. The only thing I can say is that I’ve been busy doing “a project”.

Wanna know what it is? Can’t tell ya sorry. Ok, well maybe I can give you a sneak peak. I’ve come to realize “the more you learn, the more you know” saying is so true. Today’s topic: CONCEPTION! Me myself, I have 3 children. They’re healthy, happy, vibrant little beings who love smiling and driving me nuts!

But as I’ve said before, I like helping people and part of helping people is understanding where they are coming from. So I started thinking about people having the ability to have children. Through my research, out of a lot of goals, I find that a lot of people rank having children very high as a goal to be accomplished. It inspired me so much that I decided to write a book about it, an ebook to be exact.

In it, I’m just addressing some topics widely associated with conception (i.e twins, irregular periods, signs of pregnancy, conceiving with yams, how often to have sex etc, etc.). I never knew the different obstacles people go through to conceive children.

Some of us who can have children may not realize or even understand what those who are trying or can’t have children are going through, what their thought process is, what their emotions are like and how they cope with these up’s and down’s constantly.  Did you know that some people think different positions can help with conceiving? How about eating yams or using a liquid form of drops from a “wild yam” extract to get pregnant?

I find all this fascinating and inspiring. Look at what people who are striving to achieve the wonderful goal of making a life go through and experience. They experience so much emotionally its a wonder how they keep the hope and keep it together. I think it’s great. I think it’s beautiful. I think it’s brave. The reality is, not everyone will conceive. It can be a disappointment and heartbreaking. Those who experience this stuff, have some great courage.

Well enough about what I’m doing and my thoughts. I just wanted to shine some light on this subject. Till next time….. PEACE OUT

Do You Have What It Takes To Put Money In Your Pocket?!

Rent is due. Car payment is due. Electric is due. Mortgage is due. Kids need stuff and food is right behind that. If one more thing that has to be paid for comes up I am going to GO CRAZY!

This might sound familiar. In this day and age, especially with what the economy has to offer, you might be looking for more relief than more bills. I wish I could tell you that the economy is going to get better and you have more money coming into your pocket.

In fact I’m going to be honest with you, you might have a better chance working 2,3 or 4 jobs to ease the stress and annoyance of the bills and responsibilities of daily life.

At this point in our lives our livelihoods are in jeopardy. Everything you’ve worked for is either disappearing or will in the near future. You work hard for what seems like endless hours all day (and some at night) just to barely make ends meet, just for pennies on the dollar. WAKE UP PEOPLE! The rug is being pulled from underneath YOU.

Your home, your food, your clothes, your car (and gas) are being swallowed up in this tornado called the ECONOMY! I know it’s the truth, you know it’s the truth. Why else are people looking for something better, looking for a way out. The evidence is all around you. The cost of living is going up, while the paychecks and the payments for labor are either staying the same, or in a lot of cases hours and money are being cut drastically.

I have researched thoroughly to find something that will at least be a supplement for my income for over 6 years. Like most people I’ve tried things and lost money, but I wouldn’t give up. I knew it had to be a way for me to try and stay out of the POOR HOUSE!

Finally after so much work I found a cash gifting activity. Cash gifting gives me everything I want.

-Easy system that I can duplicate and implement

-Great training

-Good resources I can use

-No upline or downline

-No products

-No selling or EXPLAINING

and how could i forget

COLD HARD CASH!

I love this idea. Want to know why? Because this activity is based upon people gifting one another with cash, helping each other out. If you need a perspective on this, try thinking about when your grandma use to give you cash for your good grades or for your birthday. THATS GIFTING..

Is it legal? Section 29 Publication 950 of the IRS.gov site can educate you on that. I’m here to inform you that if you are patient, persistent and focused on being able to feed your family, pay your rent/mortgage and your other bills, your hard work will pay off. Try taking a look at other options in this world other than slaving for your boss who may not appreciate your efforts and see what they have to offer. Try learning about this activity or others, they may hold tremendous benefit for you.

How much more do you really have to lose? No more than you already have I’m sure. To the men, MAN UP AND TAKE ACTION! Your families depend on this and so do you. To the women, DON’T LET THE FEAR OF TALKING TO PEOPLE HOLD YOU BACK! You can do this and anything else you put your mind and effort into. Try not to think about it so much and just DO IT. Trust me I KNOW WHAT I’M TALKING ABOUT…..

Get up and Get Motivated!!

I love helping people folks. I think it can be border line obsession. I like learning and reading and I like knowing something that can benefit me. So it might not sound too surprising to know that I like sharing my information as well, so today’s topic is about MOTIVATION!!!

How often do we say we want to do something or we have the intention to learn or implement something in our lives that we hold off til a later date and time? Then after we have thought about it, we feel stupid or bad about the decision that we made to delay that action that could have made either a little or big difference in our current situations.

If you can relate to this, you probably know the next step is wanting to kick yourself in the BUTT for not doing what you said you would. Its like my grandmother used to say “Say what you mean and mean what you say”… I have found that statement to be very true (even if i do choose to ignore it sometimes) The fact of the matter is, no matter how much you decide to ignore the truth, the truth always comes to light.

So I did some research and some homework and have decided to write a brief article on how (from this day forth) you can wake yourself up OH SLEEPY ONE and get and stay motivated. Don’t worry you’re not alone and you’re not the first person to let things slide.

If you are anything like me, you probably go up and down with motivation, especially if you are going through some things in your life that stresses you out, and you can’t focus. Some of us may have the intention to do great things but fear and lack of motivation keeps us back, TREMENDOUSLY!

Through my research I have found that there are many different ways to get and stay motivated. I’m going to keep this short and simple. No need to write a novel to get my point across. CONFIDENCE… I love this word. LOL. Keep in mind your accomplishments. Think about those things that you followed through on,, and then think about how you felt when everything was said and done. You felt on top of the world right?! See, the more you accomplish and succeed, the more you will believe in yourself.

Stay the course. Giving up can often seem as though its the easiest way out, but I’m here to tell you that is not the case. For example, I recently made the decision to work from home to help support my family and not stay broke for the rest of my life. Do you know how hard that is!!! You have to put yourself in the mind frame to take on challenges unknown to you and make the decision to make it through no matter what, heck my family depends on this, just the thought of this is simply CRAZY to me!!

I know from experience that you need to push through the crankiness and the laziness and keep going. By you going those extra miles, all that laziness and tiredness will be distant memories far far away.

I want to also input deep into your brains, the thought of you going easy on yourselves. I know this first hand because I tend to push myself over the limits. But success doesn’t come over night people. When you have a goal in mind, work hard towards your goal, but please, don’t kill yourselves.

While you’re at it, make sure you have a purpose for what you’re doing. Make sure you are giving a reason to your goal. Why are you going to the grocery store? Why do you go to work? Why are you cooking, cleaning, or doing the laundry? When you know why you are doing something, that in itself keeps you motivated because now you have a purpose to get out of bed, now you know why you do what you are doing.

Stress kills!!! This one hits close to home. I have 3 kids, I have been $3,000 behind on rent before and I have had health issues. And working from home doesn’t necessarily make the stress go away. If you have children like me, or maybe its your parents, grandparents, etc. etc, make sure you look at them, and think “I want to be here for them.” The healthier and less stressed you are, the better for everyone.

Lastly my friends, do you know one of the rewards from staying steadfast on the path to your goals? EXPERIENCE!! You learn more and understand more. You will come across techniques and knowledge that enpower you and in turn, keep you excited and motivated. Knowledge is a great way to sharpen your skills and your mind. The knowledge that you’ve gained you can teach someone else one day. And in my quest to become financially independent within the next few months, I’m going to use my own advice and stay persistent. So get out there and find something that you’re passionate about and make some things happen.

Now Shyness Has No Chance…

Since working from home I’ve had to come to grips with myself about a few things. In doing so I’ve discovered things about myself and how I wanted to succeed at my work, that I couldn’t have imagine before. Its good to learn about yourself. Its an improvement that is worth investing in.

Today’s topic is about SHYNESS. I am soooo shy as are many people in the states and all around the world. This subject is a topic often brought to me in conversation when talking to people on the phone. I know first hand the effects that shyness can do to a person. I personally suffer from anxiety. I mean i have the works (i.e. sweaty palms, fast breathing, shakiness and sometimes nausea and lots of nervousness). I knew I wanted to work from home, so in my case, that meant talking to people. Whether it’s in person or on the phone, I usually had a hard time and I’m sure those of you reading this can relate.

After doing some research and a little homework here is what I’ve found. Many psychologist have discovered that shyness is an inherited trait. Its also said that shyness can be a very bad thing if it keeps a person from connecting with other people and slowing down their personality.

All types of people encounter shyness folks, (You’re not alone) some of us may find it difficult to conquer shyness and some may not. Did you know that females have the most trouble in regards to coping with shyness?

Me personally I have found it very hard to rid shyness from my life. If you’re anything like me then you will find this information just as useful.

- Relax – By simply taking deep breaths (inhaling and exhaling) this will help you to relax. Your body will automatically start to calm itself, therefore you will be at ease. This technique is used by a lot of people who have difficulty with shyness. By doing this, you will have the upper hand on a lot of your stressful situations.

-Visualization – try to meditate and see things how they can happen. This technique can drastically improve your social and interaction skills.

-Self Praise – focus on your own achievements, and goals that you have already accomplished. Implementing this technique will increase your self confidence. You don’t want to be overly confident (or stuck up), you just want to be proud of yourself, proud of who you are and what you have accomplished.

-Look At- Me! – Look at the person you are talking to. By doing this, you will accomplish (2) things: (1) it will bring ease to your conversations and (2) your conversations will be a lot smoother, heck you may even grin or crack a smile

-You are not important!- Stop looking and thinking about yourself, instead shift that focus to someone else. Sometimes we seem to be very worried about what others are thinking about us, NEWS FLASH – this actually hinders you from conquering shyness. What counts is finding someone who you can connect well with and vise versa.

Shyness is not an uncommon thing, in fact a high percentage of humans encounter shyness on a everyday basis. Unfortunately shyness can cause some serious problems (i.e alcoholism and depression). Some even isolate themselves. The good news is, many people have rid shyness from their life and are currently living happy and normal lives.

I’m so glad I looked this up. Now that I’m working from home, this has come in handy. Please folks, the time is now, if you don’t want to have a deprived social life, take control.  Grab shyness by the horns and kick it in the butt!!

ME AND MY 2 CENTS

Its me again. Its been a pretty uneventful day. nothing much going on today except…. I HAD 20 PEOPLE VISIT MY SITE TODAY! I placed a solo ad (which is nothing but a email blast) and people have been checking out my site. That is whats up people. That shows that people are interested in cash gifting. And to those that think its something illegal. You can kiss my….. Sorry but hey I’m not gonna sugar coat nothing.

I read the law. And thats all I need. And according to tax code title 29 publication 950 says that any one person can gift or receive a gift that cannot exceed $12,000. People all over the internet are battling over this. Some say its a scam and some say its completely legit. I of course say its legal. The one thing that I can’t seem to find with all the forums out here on this subject, is the proof that its not legal.

A lot of people say that the tax law that i mentioned above is not enough to say its legal and yet people aren’t coming up with anything that its not and i know, i was just on another forum discussing this very subject and when asked for proof they couldn’t produce a document or a web URL where this can be found, but i can go directly to the IRS site and produce my stuff. I can, and so can many others in the cash gifting activity.

I say all this because there are needs that need to be met. What are those needs? Bills, medical, food, gas and unexpected emergencies AND THIS IS REAL. So please folks. quit it with the mumbo jumbo that cash gifting is this and that because one thing it is for sure…. Its a life changing activity thats helping people not only pay their bills but become financially independent. So they won’t have to ask for assistance all the time for small or big things.

A friend of mine just cleared the $4400 mark. Another friend of mine and now my mentor has just submitted his papers to his job and now has made $30,000 this month alone. (By the way hes a twice bankrupt father of 5 and he just started this particular program in july of this year) I am so proud of him. But he better watch out because i’ll be catching up to him real soon.

Anyway folks, i am outta here. I got somemore work to do. Again if anyone would like to comment (good or bad) please do not be shy also if anyone with a little bit of an open mind would like to see what i’m up to check out http://www.cashrollinin.com
Til next time…. SEE YA

MY DECISION PART II

Whats up. I’m not gonna be long. This is a quick post. Right now I’m not feeling very well. Kind of nauseated (no i’m not pregnant). Well i posted somemore ads today for my biz and its been very interesting so far. Its been fun yet different. I say different because its been awhile since I actually worked. Its been 5 years to be exact. I have three kids and I’ve been a stay at home mom for that long.

Its cool though. I love it. I’m working for myself. I don’t have someone telling me what to do and when to do it and how to do it. I get to be home with my kids and still try to make an income. Its great. I can’t argue with that, no matter how tired or bad I may feel at times.

In fact i think i have a 1 up on a lot of people. Some people like working for someone else, in fact they may need that type of structure, but those who dont want to or don’t need it, i suggest you get on the ball and stop wasting time.

Its and experience that i can’t fully put into words ya know. I’m glad that I finally made that move to do this for myself. It will be beneficial for me and the fam.

Well thats all for today. If you have some comments don’t be shy . Thats all for now. SEE YA…

MY DECISION

I couldn’t wait another minute to let you guys know what is going on with me right now. I have just joined A L S! ALS stands for Abundant Living System. I know, i know you may be wondering… Oh what the heck is she talking about now…. To be honest I’m talking freedom, i’m talking about control, i’m talking about MONEY.

This is a program for cash gifting. If you haven’t heard of it check out this sight http://www.cashrollinin.com this will tell you some info on cash gifting. And if you have heard of it then you will love this. It offers all of the stuff that other cash gifting programs don’t and the best part is, you can start seeing results quickly.

I’m not trying to sell you on ANYTHING. I do not have time for that. I’m a mother of 3, i don’t have time for selling, but I will say this. WHO WOULDN’T WANT CASH DELIVERED TO THEIR DOOR?! On a daily, weekly, monthly or a few times daily basis?

Do you know why I’m so excited? I came across cash gifting 3 years ago and I didn’t get into it. I’m not letting it past me by this time around. From this day forth I am saying NO to foodstamps, NO to medicaid, NO to late rent and NO gas in the car. Instead I am saying YES to bills being paid and money for food and gas in the car. And besides I get to help other people to do the same to the best of my ability. Sounds like a win win to me.

Anyway, if you are anything like me and would like to help people and MAKE SOME MONEY,do yourself a favor, do some homework, some research, and go check that website out. What do you have to lose? No more than you already have I’m sure.